Get Over The Fear Of Rejection – Tips For Men
If you have been rejected more than a few times you know that something creeps over you that tells you to get bitter and stop trying because it tells you that you will never get the woman of your dreams. Your job is to silence this voice with these few tips on how to get over the fear of rejection and have a robust dating life.
1. It is not about you
It is possible to get over this fear of rejection once you realize that it is not about you but about the other person. You will feel the fear but do it anyway and not let this fear stop you from approaching a woman.
2. Forget Yesterday
When you see a woman that catches your eye, make your move immediately and do not give into any of the negative thoughts that you will be rejected because you have been rejected in the past. Just simply walk up to the woman and introduce yourself, and offer to buy her a drink. If she agrees, great. If she rejects you, move on to the next.
This technique is mainly effective because when you react without thinking, you give your mind zero chance to come up with reasons why you should not go for it. Live in the power of now.
3. Eye on the Prize
Keep your eye on the prize which is finding the woman of your dreams. This will help you block out all negative thoughts that would otherwise hinder your self confidence and lead to low self esteem. Men that are successful with women understand the concept that how they feel inside is portrayed on the outside. Other people will be able to sense your insecurity which has the effect of pushing people away.
4. You never know unless you try
No man is ever successful all the time so do not take your failures to heart. Get out there and start mingling.
Allowing the fear of rejection to cripple your dating life will not get you anywhere.